Hi ya Kelvin Umm, right. Kelvin, it was actually my idea to move to NY. I asked (boyfriend) if he would come and he said he might have work available so it was possible. I will always do what I want in life, always have, always will. Besides even if it was (boyfriend's) idea I would go, (boyfriend) and I are quite serious and I plan on spending much more of my time with him in the future. Which means we are making plans together. But thanks for the advice anyhow...? Also my life has always been quite good, I have been priveledged for many years going to many different countries. And I do despise the cold immensely! What's wrong with that? That is how I feel, this is my opinion. Just because your friends have never had pizza, but they'd love to does not mean that I must all of a sudden appreciate it. Please don't second guess my thoughts and actions. I have to say I haven't really been appreciating many of your emails recently. I am not the ever-free helen and it is not terribly amazing that I am moving in with a guy. I have changed since I left Oakville almost 4 years ago, things have changed, grown, whatever... I would appreciate if you could take that into consideration. Don't bother emailing me back if you are going to try to judge my life and tell me things even if it is with the best of intentions. People change Kelvin. I know today is your birthday, so happy birthday Kelvin. I hope you have a fun evening whatever you do. We'll catch up some other time. take care (ex-girlfriend) -----Original Message----- From: Crazy Kelvin [mailto:XXXXX@XXXX.XXX] Sent: 21 February 2003 21:48 To: XXXXXXX@XXXXX.XX.XX Subject: XXXXX the Wine Taster!! Hey (ex-girlfriend)! Well, the only reason I asked was because you made your move a big announcement. Whoa!! You are going to France in 2 weeks? Life just seems like one big adventure after another! Just remember where you came from! Life wasn't always as great as it is for you now. How could you despise the cold? Without the cold, you could never appreciate the warmth. Just like without the bitter, you could never appreciate the sweet. I have lots of friends in Miami who have never seen snow, but would love to experience it. Anyways, don't come to New York if (boyfriend) is going. Maintain your life motto, make decisions based on yourself, not others. Well, as always I miss ya. Take care and talk to you soon.. -cK